i know!

i know what i want! :D

someone like jon! and i want to be someone like heather (who is the author and owner of dooce.com).

haha i know i love a party and i'd love a friend for a husband - and these two are married the best way some people are married - yeah, like lim yew beng and tan kheng hua. she's got her quirks and he understands and takes it - loves it. and she does the same, despite being in-his-face about it occasionally.

though.. she's probably the more flamboyant one in both cases. haha


hm. am i different from these women? i want to be more active with my life. more, more active.

so how did she do it? well, it doesn't matter. i think her most basic personality trait is to dare be herself and simply stay that way.

people who say "you changed" don't understand that people change - people are always changing, especially when growing up (ie: from age 2 to age 36 for women, age 2 to age 50 for men. and when they finally grow up, it's nearly time to die).

the bottom line is to continue to love and support that person... like how jon did (amongst other things) when heather was clinically depressed and refused to take medication due to the stigma. boy, i love that man!

you go, jon! they don't make men/geeks like you anymore!