relationship?

someone told me during a conversation today that she wants a relationship. i didn't understand it.

right now, in the quiet of my bedroom, i begin to question: what about a relationship is that attractive to her, that she is wanting one?

i mean, anyone who has been through a relationship understands that hey people hit the ground after the honeymoon wears off, much like how balloons hit the ground once the helium wears off. surely she understands that?

or am i biased, or unfeeling to even have such queries in my mind?


why relationship? is it the...

1) sex?
2) the companionship?
3) idea that there is a "friend" you can trust in and love on?

forgive me if i'm on the sceptical side here but we do know that, respectively: -
1) it's never seven inches.
2) there's no real companionship until you live together - by then you'd probably want to kick the other person out.
3) and yeaaah the things you don't know.


so... seriously now. what is it about a relationship? i don't understand it at this point in time probably because i know what i'm searching for... and what i'm looking for is NOT more trouble.

friendship and companionship yes, but a relationship - haha

i'm not so sure.


anyhoos. it's someone else who's looking for a relationship, not me - perhaps she is wiser than i am? she might very well be, for all i know! for now however, i'm letting it all wash over me, not pursuing, not resisting.

and it's great. until i find that wisdom my friend seems to have, i'm going to remain right here where i am in terms of status: single.