games.

i think we won't know who we truly are inside until the following happens to us (not necessarily in order):

1) when we move (that is to say when in an unfamiliar environment)
2) in the face of hardship
3) when facing betrayal
4) when angry
5) when we need to react quickly
6) prolonged anonymity
7) when successful
8) when down and out
9) when strapped for time
10) when found out

truly, these are the times when you should see glimpses of what you are made of.